Separating or divorcing in a county as vibrant and diverse as Kent, with its hubs in Maidstone, Canterbury, Medway, and Tunbridge Wells, presents unique challenges. Family Mediation offers Kent families a practical, less adversarial, and more flexible alternative to the Family Court, allowing you to create stable arrangements for your children and finances.
The Power of Mediation
Family Mediation is a voluntary and confidential negotiation process guided by an impartial, professionally accredited mediator. It focuses on facilitating a clear dialogue between you and your ex-partner to resolve disputes related to your separation.
Key areas of focus for Kent families include:
- Child Arrangements: Creating a workable and detailed Parenting Plan that covers where your children live, when they spend time with each parent, holidays, and communication.
- Financial & Property Resolution: Negotiating the fair division of assets, property, pensions, and debts following a divorce or the breakdown of a cohabiting relationship.
- Child Maintenance: Determining appropriate and sustainable financial support.
The Kent Advantage: Why Choose Mediation Over Court
For families across the 'Garden of England,' choosing mediation often leads to better, faster, and less painful outcomes than litigation at the local Family Court.
- Reduced Stress and Conflict: Unlike the formal, confrontational nature of a court in places like Maidstone or Canterbury, mediation provides a safe, private space. This preserves co-parenting relationships, which is crucial for children's long-term wellbeing.
- Faster Resolution: Court proceedings in Kent can often drag on for many months. Mediation typically requires just a few joint sessions and can reach a final agreement in a matter of weeks, enabling you to move forward sooner.
- Local and Flexible Access: Many Kent-based mediation services offer a blend of in-person appointments in convenient locations and secure online (video) sessions, giving you the flexibility to attend from anywhere without travel or childcare pressures.
- Empowering Decision-Making: You and your ex-partner—the people who know your family best—retain control. Your mediator will guide you towards a solution that is tailored to your unique circumstances, not a generic order imposed by a judge.
Your Essential First Step: The MIAM
If you intend to make an application to the Family Court for a Child Arrangements Order or a Financial Order, you are legally required to attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) first, unless an exemption applies.
A MIAM is a private meeting with an accredited mediator to:
- Explain all your non-court options for resolving your dispute.
- Assess the suitability of mediation for your case.
- Check your eligibility for Legal Aid.
If mediation is not deemed appropriate, your mediator will sign the necessary court form (such as the C100 or Form A), confirming that you have complied with the legal requirement.
Financial Support for Mediation in Kent
Family mediation in Kent is significantly more affordable than litigation, and various forms of financial support are available to reduce the cost further:
1. Legal Aid for Family Mediation
If you are on a low income or receive specific benefits, you may be eligible for Legal Aid, meaning your mediation process will be FREE of charge Amity Mediation provides accredited mediators with a Legal Aid contract.
- Benefit to Both Parties: If one person qualifies for Legal Aid, the other party will receive their MIAM and the first joint mediation session for free.
- Action Required: Contact us today and we can provide a Family Mediation Council (FMC) registered mediator in Kent who is contracted with the Legal Aid Agency (LAA) for a full financial assessment.
2. The Government's £500 Mediation Voucher Scheme
This scheme offers a financial contribution of up to £500per family towards the cost of joint mediation sessions.
- Focus: It is designed to help families resolve disputes relating to child arrangements or where there is a combination of child and financial issues.
- Key Advantage: The voucher is not means-tested, meaning most families dealing with these issues are eligible, regardless of their income.
- How to Use: Your chosen FMC-accredited mediator at Amity Mediation will check your eligibility and apply for the voucher on your behalf to reduce your overall fee.
To begin your confidential discussion and learn how to secure financial support, contact an accredited family mediator at Amity Mediation serving the Kent area today.
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Amity Mediation in Kent
Kent, known as the "Garden of England," is a diverse county in South East England bordered by London and the English Channel, celebrated for its rich agricultural land, historic castles, and crucial transport links to continental Europe. The two designated cities are the ancient cathedral city of Canterbury, a major historic and religious centre, and Rochester, a city with strong Dickensian connections (though its city status is historically ambiguous). The administrative centre is Maidstone, a busy market town situated on the River Medway. Other key urban areas include the Medway towns conurbation (including Chatham and Gillingham), the seaside towns of Margate and Folkestone, and the historic port of Dover, famous for its iconic white cliffs and as the principal ferry crossing point to France. Kent's geography is defined by the North Downs and its mix of commuter belt affluence and traditional coastal charm.
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